If I'm reading the wiring diagram right, it looks like the wiring alternative is to cut (or pull pin out of connector) the #3 position tan/light-blue wire at the GEM, but making sure the circuit is broken between the gem and S272 on the diagram so the power still loops through the (non-energized) one-touch relay -OR- disconnecting the gem pin #7 yellow/red wire that grounds the relay coil to activate it, -OR- creating a break in the circuit in the same place, by pulling the one touch down relay and breaking off either relay pin #1 or pin #2, which are for both sides of the relay coil so the gem then can't activate the relay.
Since the relay is a modular replacement, I'd try breaking the pin off first instead of altering the wiring, or perhaps as a sanity check before breaking a pin off the relay, leave the relay out and in the socket it goes in, short together pins #3 and #4 positions with a piece of wire to confirm the window operates as intended, then decide whether the short is reliable to use long term without a relay in the socket, OR to break a pin off the relay and reinstall it, or pick up a relay from a junkyard for a buck to alter, or new from amazon for $7 to have a spare. I think this might be the one I bought off Amazon as a spare a few years back:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000C83SRC/?tag=serious-20
Since there are so many of that type of relay in the vehicle, I think I'd break a pin off the old one and buy a new one from amazon to keep in the glovebox then you've got the spare to get the one-touch down feature back if you later want to, or to replace one of the other relays if they fail in the future.