Did some real digging and found that, indeed, my 4x4cm is fried. Turns out, having to jumpstart the car a few times can kill it. After doing a boat load of testing on the harnesses and the switch I come across some older ranger forum (01-05 rangers use the same control module for 4x4) that mentioned that jumping the vehicle can just kill it sometimes. Previous owner had installed a new battery that was too small and the car was just destroying the poor thing (was corroded to ****) and I had to jump it a couple times to get it to start after getting the new starter before I bought a new battery (and before I knew much about cars). Makes me really wish I had an earlier 2nd gen so it’d be handled by the GEM and not this separate module. Alas, I have to now either fork over $200+ to dorman or motorcraft for a replacement or hope and pray I can find one at a salvage or junk yard for cheap.
Anyone looking to sell a 4x4cm??