Omg... I'd lose it if someone hit the reverse trying to hit N in my truck.. that would be horrible. Does it have a lock, is that what you meant by detant? I shift into N a lot but have never hit the R or even let the stick get too close, I click it in always.. I use it during braking sometimes, specially when the brakes are slippery for whatever reason, rain, worn brake pads, ect.. I use it to rev to downshift, with my shift kit this is very smooth... and I haven't quite gotten the blipping the gas with a downshift... almost but it's not as smooth as I'd like it... need to work on my timing and how much throttle... Anyways.. engine braking is good also depending on your situation. Most people don't even know what that is. =\
And who just drives off the road? lol.. it's one thing to get to the edge to Avoid.. but who just steers off the road? lmao.. oh man..
Had another moose today, had to head to the side while braking. Not FULL brakes but gradual controlled braking with my maneuver. The biggest thing everything all comes down to really IMO is REMAIN CALM, don't assume you're gonna F up or you will. Control what you have to until you don't/can't anymore. Seriously. Common sense. Look where the moose is going, how fast it's going.. it's reaction, other traffic, road conditions... ect... these things should be going through your mind through an emergency, not panic. No screaming either! lol.
An example of gas is better than brakes is being at an intersection, slight short term traffic jam... but you're already stopped. In the middle of the intersection to an extent. Semi coming through, sliding, honking. What do you do? Smash the car ahead of you? Have a rear end accident backing up? Try n get as close forward or backward? Try and pull to the side out of your lane? All possibilities but what happens if there's just not enough room? And things are going fast and there's too much sliding cross traffic everywhere? I put myself sideways with the AWD and the gas while staying in the same general area. Worked Perfectly, and yes I will admit. Scared the crap outta me! But there's only so many possibilities, if I just went backward or forward, I will would have been hit, unless I rammed someone. It was a bad situation but so intense.
One of the biggest parts of driving is paying attention to your surroundings, EVERY detail you can think of. Not just is there a car ahead of me? No? *continues watching movie on the stereo* =P Gotta be prepared with possibilities and how to deal with all of em.