Yes, the reddish color is from fuel additives normally found in unleaded gas. I meant to say I found out about that on the AUTOLITE website. Go to autolite.com, click on car care, scroll down to plug tip diagnosis, and take a look at plug 2.
I would pull the plug from another cylinder for comparison. I think you will find the following:
1. The plug from the other cylinder will not have the grayish stuff on the end of the threads.
2. The tip will look about the same color, but of course no cracking. That would suggest your injector is working ok - . Except for the crack, I would look at that plug tip and say everything looks fine.
Dunno - I am guessing there is a problem with the head or the head gasket based on the gray stuff on the threads. Detonation will crack a tip like that, but I would expect it to happen much more frequently - once a cylinder starts detonating it is usually from a pretty serious problem, and it keeps doing it. Do you have any pinging from the engine?
If you are under warranty, take it back and have them look at that plug. If not, I guess you will get to keep changing plugs. Unless you want to pull the head.
A wild guess, aka a WAG, take a close look at the #4 plug hole with a bright lite and see if it has been helicoiled. If someone stripped the threads in that plug hole, they may have drilled it out and helicoiled it.
Maybe somebody else can come up with something?