Heres how it went:
I sent him a PM and IMed him (steeldreemer) on May 18th and told him i would like to buy an antenna bracket from him. He says sure just paypal me the $25 (which is ridiculously exspensive as it is for a folded piece of metal IMO but i figured I'll just spring for it to save myself the time of making one myself). So I paypaled him that day the $25. Then I hadn't heard anything from him in 2 weeks so I IMed him and PMed him again asking what the deal was and he said it was on back order (the impresssion I had from our first conversation was he made these himself and had some just lying around but whatever) and then he said he just sent me a message "STEELDREEMER: yeah, i just send you a message... " but i never recieved any messages, not even a reply from my first one. Then I IMed him a week later on 6-9 and he ingnored me, and the same thing on 6-15. On 6-16 I IMed him again and this time he answered and said he shipped it out and I should get them "any day now" yet he ignored my question when I asked him if he had a tracking number. It's now 2 weeks later and I haven't gotten anything, nor has he attempted to contact me if there were any problems, so I'm fed up.
I just sent him a pissed off PM demanding my money back cause this is unacceptable and extremely irresponsible.