What kind of shocks pretty much depends on what characteristics you want your ride to have. If you want firm handling, Bilsteins are some of the best out there. I have the Bilsteins and love 'em, but the ride might be a little firm for some people. KYB Monomax, Tokico, and the Monroe Reflex shocks are pretty good premium dampers too. If you want a nice ride that's more like stock, you could go with something like the Monroe Sensatracs or KYB GR-2's.
Budget offerings like the regular Monroes are ok, but I suggest the KYB Gas-A-Just for a budget shock, since it's a pretty good deal for a high-pressure monotube design shock.
As for tires, if you're sticking with the stock tire size and doing all pavement driving, it's pretty hard to beat the Michelin Cross Terrain SUV. You can find these almost anywhere. I use the Michelin LTX M/S, which is similar. The Yokohama Geolandar H/T-S seems to be a good choice with lots of good online reviews, and Goodyear's latest offerings, the Fortera TripleTred and Fortera SilentArmor, seem to be really good performers.