I made some progress in my investigation.. I had my hands on a voltmeter thing again today... tried something Gavin told me to do.. I was checking the output voltage from the alternator but instead of using the battery ground, I used the alternator housing.. at this point I'm pretty excited.. I'm getting a good 14.8v or so... alright good.. the alternator is doing it's job just fine.... here's the catch though... I put the ground (for the voltmeter) on the negative post of the battery, and the reading gives me the crappy 13.0-13.2... I'm thinking Wtf.. I try putting it on the body... same low reading.. and for the hell of it.. I tried the frame, same thing.. and even that ground strap on the firewall.. same thing... so I tried something a little weird.. (well, typical for me anyways..lol) I put a jumper cable on my negative battery post... and put the other end on my engine.. =\ and what do I get? A good 14.8v!!! Both from the voltmeter and my radar detector... also.. the oil pressure gauge stopped shaking and moving around... turned everything on, and still a good voltage, even went up a little bit after I reved. Keep in mind I didn't drive like this, so I don't know if this solves the problem completely. If it does, the only thing left is the overheating issue.. Gavin mentioned no electrical issue could cause an overheat.
Neg batt to alt will fix this issue, but there's still an issue beyond it I want to take care of..
So.. pretty much what I have here is the engine is a good ground, and the body And frame are not very good.. which I don't understand... now to the work... Which grounds should I be looking at? I know about the two on each side of the frame, and the one on the firewall.. question is.. what does the firewall one go to? And I'm going to be removing the battery to body ground wire and grounding it to the alternator... besides that wire, there's another one on the negative terminal, where does that go? I can't seem to follow it well.