Okay...
Okay here's the answer to any problems you may be having.
1. Did you disconnect the front sway bar from the control arms? You can get the old ones out without disconnecting those, but it'll stop you from putting the new ones in. Tricky, i know.
2. Is the bushing aligned with the two bolts at the top that are closest together?
Im going to try to explain this the best i can...
On the top, there are 3 bolts, two are close together and 1 is out on its own, then at the complete opposite end you have the other side of the shock you have the other connector (shaped like a tube where it connects to the control arm) you need to rotate this peace so that the whole is aligned with the two bolts that are close together. Basically so if you lay it down, the gap between the two bolts at the top and the hole at the bottom should both be facing up and aligned. If their not, ur going to have to re-compress the spring, loosed the top bolt and rotate the assembly to align these components. Be careful when your rotate these things that the seats the springs are sitting on are still in there proper position.
After youve done ALL THAT! and you still cant get it in,
3. If the problem is the control arm is too high to slip the shock back into its whole on the arm, then have a buddy come and stick a pry bar between the control arm and anything else on the car, (the best spot it up top using the spring housing as ur prying location) and pushing down so you can slip it in and get the bolt though before he releases.
Good Luck! If you have any more questions post here and ill check back.
-Blake F