It sounds like you have been receiving a decent amount of bad information. Ford still sells solenoid blocks; the most recent revision is part number 9L2Z-7G391-A and can be had from dealers like Tasca for just under $300.
I have no experience with the Sonnax remanufactured units. It does look like they at least attempt to improve them with an external circuit board, unlike most places that just pull used low mileage units and call them rebuilt. However, they are still rebuilding an older revision and they are not addressing the internal wear issues. Spending a little more for the right part is still my recommendation.
You need to unscrew the 10mm electrical connection on the top of the solenoid block...like I said: