I have driven locked rear differentials on the street for years with no issues. Anything but a spool should be fine.
Selectable lockers are great as they make it more drivable on pavement, but they also have more things to go wrong and fail. The most common types are air, electric and cable. I have had both air and electric lockers and both worked very well. They can be cost prohibitive, around $1000.
I am currently running a Detroit in the rear and a Eaton E-locker up front. Like them both. The only time I notice the rear is locked is if I decide to make a U-turn under throttle, or accelerate hard from a stop while turning. The tire inside of the turn gets noisy. Recently took a 700 mile off road adventure, with about half of those miles on the freeway.
There are many different lockers, what are you looking at?