"the oil gauge reads no pressure. I've been told to start with the sending unit. Does this sound right to you guys?"
That's a reasonable place to start. My oil gauge was fluttering (but not that bad), so I replaced the sending unit. It was rather inexpensive, and solved the problem.
I never thought to take the front driver's side tire off, but that would probably help a lot. In any case, finding the unit is the problem---once found, it's not much off a jo
Overtigtening? If I recall, the unit screws INTO a short extension out of the block, so if you strip the unit, you will then have to get the short extension replaced too.