Most of the newer Explorers have a trailer wiring plug hanging down behind the driver's side tail light. You can buy a harness that just plugs in from most auto stores. If you don't have the plug, there are direct plug in harness's available that "T" into your wiring harness without having to splice wires. You unplug the harness in the jack compartment in the back, and plug the "T" in there.
It's not that we don't like to help out. It's just that with so many posts, some get lost occasionally. The forum sees several hundred posts a day, so it's easy to miss a bunch when you are scanning through them. As Morissey0 said, just bump it if no one responds in a day. that usually works.
