Hoppy and vbtruk, I figured it out!! I don't know the mumble jumble but it works perfectly now. I have the delay and everything. There's no need for a module to control the lamps. Apparently, the mirror controls the delay for the headlights too.
What I did when I first wired the mirror was that both the power wires (LG/Y and R/Y) are connected to the power wire in the overhead console, which is only hot when ignition is turned on. So when I turn my truck off, the mirror turns off also so the delay is not there. I finally figured out that one of the power wires is hot at all times (LG/Y) and one is only hot when the ignition on (R/Y). The LG/Y wire is the one that powers the delay.
So...I rewired the mirror this weekend by taking the LG/Y wire out of the power wire from the overhead console and brought it down to the cigarette lighter since the cigarette lighter is hot at all times and VOILA!! It worked. The delay works. The delay can be set between 2 seconds to a full 3 minutes. It's awesome!!
As for the W/P wire, all you have to do is bring it down to the instrument panel and it should control the lights because it's the same wire RAP uses.
So the wire colors, 5 wires. R/Y and LG/Y are power. R/Y is hot at ignition and LG/Y is hot at all times, that's for the delay to work. BK is ground, W/P is lighting control, BK/PK is to the transmission range selector.
Like I said above, R/Y connects to the power wire in the overhead console and LG/Y is ignition wire or a wire that's hot at all times.
I don't know about the plug. When I got it, the harness has one plug, and that's the plug for plugging into the mirror and the other end is open wires so I can't help ya there.
I hope I explained everything as clear as possible but if you guys have any questions, just reply or send me an email. Good luck!!