Did your 96 truck have the full length console? The big console has a bracket riveted to the floor which holds the back end down. I'd drill that out from the 99 even if the 96 has it. People who want to swap in the big console need that bracket for a swap.
BTW, I received the 2003+ Expedition TC switch yesterday. It is too large to use the whole Expedition trim surround, but the actual switch is the same size as the 95+ Explorer's. If I can get my hands on the GEM, TOD and 4WD module from a 98-02 Expedition, I'll look hard at the wiring. I got the wiring schematics from my Ford tech, it is very hard to follow, and their records show no 4WD module for any of the trucks. According to the book, only the GEM and TOD control it all. The GEM does handle the front disconnect system.
If the wiring could be done and work, tested with the 03+ switch plugged in, I could fabricate a mount for the switch. The two mounting points are not located anywhere near how the 95-01 models are. It's plastic, the old switch pushes onto the new switch, and the distance/angle between the selections are the same. I would choose to place the right three selections of the 03+ switch, in line with the OEM Explorer bezel labeling. Meaning I would not alter the bezel face, but just mount the switch from behind. The 2WD selection would simply be down to the left of the other three, unmarked.