That's good to know that the transmission etc are unaffected. On many Ford trucks having little or no resistance causes problems like it did on my F150.
I looked at many bulbs before deciding to try the Putco Plasma LED. They aren't cheap, but are the brightest I've seen. Amazon has the best prices.
Your frequent bulb failure sounds like a weird problem. Is there a bad ground?
I used the Sylvania resistors most stores carry on the F150.
There are tons of LED choices, brightness definitely, quality too of course. I chose a couple aiming for near stock levels, for my work truck.
My lights weren't ever a problem, until I used the truck for about 9+ months straight, with the flashers running all the time. Delivering mail discovers many weak links of various systems. I replaced the bulbs for my headlight once, then the right tail light twice in about three months. When I had the LED bulbs in hand, then I replaced the bulb socket, and was about to replace the pigtail end and the connector. I first tested for grounds, and power to the terminals. There are two circuits in that receptacle, for brakes and the flashers. I didn't find any problem using the multi-meter, so I puled the left side out, and found the same results.
That's when I began trying the LED bulbs. For some reason, the incandescent bulbs(both sides) worked in the left side, but not in the right. That's not good of course, the testing wasn't sensing whatever the issue is. But the LED bulb would work in either side. So I put the first one in the right side, and weeks later installed the resistor adapter harnesses, and the other LED bulb. It was about five weeks ago that the light went out again, and I found the resistor harness burned up. I removed it and put the regular bulb back in. I need to decide now on what next to do with it. I've avoided running the flashers and head lights full time, to reduce the current running in the circuits.