Follow up for my issue - which was posted in the wrong forum, but posting the update anyways for anyone who comes across this later in a google search. Especially since I came upon this exact post while now researching fixing the original issue that caused my broken plug.
My 2005 Explorer v8 4.6L had a rusted out spark plug, due to water collecting in the spark plug well from coming in through the "cowell" at the bottom of the windshield. when trying to change plugs, the plug broke, clear off above the threads, nothing to grab on to, no way to get an ez out in, nothing. The Lisle tool only works on the 3V Triton plugs, not on these ones.
Machine shop had no suggestions on how to get the porcelain and plug out. My regular shop did not want to touch it for risk of getting porcelain in the cylinder.
Different shop I took it to had a custom chisel made by the machine shop that would work with an air hammer. 9 hours of hacking away at the porcelain and they get the porcelain out and then pulled the plug shell with an EZ out. It was going to be a $4k job to pull the engine to get the head off (can't pull the head without pulling the engine out) and ended up being $900 in mostly labor to get the broken plug out. Most expensive spark plug change ever, but way less than it was expected to be in the end.
Now to go seal that gap that lets water drip in to the #8 well when parked facing downhill, ie in my driveway.