I am going to be a rebel...lol
I'm running out of money 1200.00 so far and Ford will only sell the rod bolts and nuts in a set of 12. It has been apart for over a month now and I am waaay past being over working on it.
All, the guys at the machine shop (who do work for all the local major dealerships) agreed that unless the motor suffered a catastrophic failure or had any significant damage, they always reuse the rod bolts whether or not they are torque to yield. He actually had a re-manufactured 4.0 SOHC rod in the box for a customer and showed me that it came with used bolts.
If a shop was torquing a head bolt (he explained) and lost track of the sequence for some reason, They don't remove them and throw them away. That is basically where I am at. The machine guy said that the people from Ford who set the procedures for these bolts and state they must be thrown away... do not build used motors day in and out and they do these all day long and have no issues. I would not reuse the head bolts that have been on a motor and heated and cooled.
Here is a quote from the link Bob posted:
"Conventional head bolts simply just did not wear out. Torque to yield head bolts however, by the very nature of their design, do wear out and should NEVER be reused."
This to me would mean from age and use, not just from torquing them.
I may be taking a slight risk with the rod bolt, but I keep my fingers crossed. After talking to the guys at the shop, I feel safe about reusing the rod bolts and nearly new brand head bolts.
And to add to the fun, the oil pick up tube bolts nearly broke when I torqued them (not torque to yield). They are only 118 in lb and yet the one bolt kept spinning at 100 in lb and finally when I removed it, it is deformed and needs to be replaced. Why this happened is beyond me. Now I get to hunt for these bolts tomorrow.
I am wondering if this will ever end!