Well, this is a testament to my inability to properly diagnose a problem. I put all new hubs and CV axles in the front, I inspected the differential. And as I'm backing out of the driveway I'm greeted by that same screeching, grinding noise. BUT this time I'm right next to the Explorer which acted as a "sounding board", sending the echo of the sound back to me making it easier to determine where its coming from, other than just under the truck. I've got loose parts flopping around inside the transfer case, getting ground up into smaller parts, I'm sure. I found a Transfer case on Facebook marketplace for 150, so I'm pleased that it isn't going to be that expensive. Now need to see if I can recruit my Stepson and nephew to help be bench press the old one out and the new one in. Also, the new 4WD actuators still aren't disengaging. I replaced the vacuum solenoid and the Vacuum check valve for them, and still nothing.
On the plus side, I've got all new parts in the front, so won't have to replace those for a while.