Seems like everyone has posted their timeline...so here is ours as it stands right now.
Order placed 5/03/12... required by dealer to put down nearly 10% at time of order
Unable to obtain DORA, order number or any form of confirmation from dealer....
Received order # and dealer # from Ford CS phone line 5/24/12
Received basic drive train, etc confirmation from Cory 5/25/12 (very prompt and welcoming response from Cory and all forum members!)
Finally pried DORA from dealer 6/4/12
Notified by Cory of hold for 4x4 and rims 6/7/12
VIN received from Cory 6/14/12
Window sticker 6/29/12
Build date 7/12/12 per WS...Friday the 13th per ETIS....dun dun dun....makes creepy horror movie sounds...
ETIS updates with build info...approx 7/17
Called dealer for update on transport, ETA....no info received 7/13/12
7/15/12 Ford CS on phone tells us in transport with ETA 7/30
7/16/12 Cory says 8/4 ETA...dealer says gee we're sorry we haven't been in contact but glad you have gotten to know Cory and Raul at Ford so well.... Major brownie points to Raul at Ford CS by the way. And all the CS reps. Very patient and very informative. Also hooked us up with the Incentive Protection Plan documents, greatly appreciated!
7/20/12 Cory reports in ETA now 8/8 and subject to change
Frowny face.... for the ETA...not for Cory...Go Cory 2012!!!!
I imagine for the dealer it's gone more like this:

(Disclaimer: trying to have a sense of humor and this is only intended as such...)
5/2 Strange people come in with printout from Ford.com of Explorer build. Unable to locate vehicle in under 2000 mile radius. Who buys a green car, anyway?
5/3 The wierdos are back, but, hey, they ordered a car. Even put money down. Financing arranged already. X plan, hmmm...we will try and sell them a warranty...and make written trade agreement.
5/12 The weird people want confirmation of order. Can't reach our order rep...she lives where there is no email, cell service and landlines were destroyed by sinkholes. Only logical explanation.
5/15 Those people are getting annoying. And where is our order rep? Is she on vacation? Hey, what is our dealer number anyway?
5/24 Yes, our order rep must be taking one of those Australian walkabouts...you know, like the guy in the wheelchair on Lost...but then he didn't need the wheelchair...what was his name again?...
6/4 Dear gussy, these people get on our nerves. Oh look, order rep has faxed us something...we will pacify the annoying ones with it.....wait, they say it is only their printout from Ford.com...they say they gave this to US...oh dear... They have talked to Ford CS..dealer number, order number...so THAT'S our dealer number...
6/25 They're baaaaacccckkkk....oh, they only want to extend trade in agreement....okay... phew...extend to end July
7/18 Wackos want to extend trade agreement again into August. When will this car come and make these people go away?...