If you want to upgrade the harness, your best bet would be to buy one, then do the diode mod as I am almost positive it will work in that situation. Your diagram has no numbers on the terminals so its kind of hard to follow. If your just wanting the low beams to stay on with the highs, you **could** get away with just one relay. The wire heading to the low beam would just have to be split to send power to both sides. If you do this, you will save about $6, the cost of one relay. Now that I think about it, that probably would have been a cleaner install, but oh well, what I have works and works well. To top it off, I believe the HIDs are actually a bit bright when the highs are on as they are getting the full voltage from the alternator. I highly recommend you just buy the upgraded harness as it would be much easier for you, and is really not that expensive, considering you'd have to buy the plugs for the bulbs, as well as the female connector to plug the stock harness into.
Dan