All right I am going to post an angry update to my woes. The shop I took it to rebuilt it with an 'overhaul box kit,' changed the EPC and a sensor on the outside of the case and a couple exhaust parts. Cdn$2200. The flare was gone! Things seemed fine, though I still thought engagements were just a shade slow (1 second, just not immediate) but I chalked that up to being used to the lightning fast engagements of my old civic and my roommates high miles BMW. That was a month ago. By coincidence brought it back just this morning for a check-up, and went for a drive with the service guy. Things were fine. Did some errands, parked at 4 pm. Started the truck at 10pm, (temp was about 17F or -8 celcius) put in R, went 3 feet and slipped out of gear! Thought I was just on an icy patch so gave it some gas and the RPMs were up to 3000+, let off, tried again a couple times and it banged into gear, went a bit father, slipped out, finally got onto the street, put it into D, same thing- went a bit, lose power, RPMs climb, bang back into gear...lost all power going up a small hill, but waited a few seconds and could go. Eventually it held 1st but slipped trying to shift into 2nd. After it warmed up a bit more, the symptoms completely disappeared. I drove to the arena and checked the fluid before my hockey game- it was about halfway in the crosshatched 'do not fill' area. 90 minutes later upon leaving there were no symptoms- seemed fine. I drove it and left it at the trans. shop anyway with a note and the keys. Does this sound familar to anyone or does anyone have any advice for my approach with this shop now???