Do you have a someone accurate weight estimate for the trailer & Trike?
Here is the
2011 Ford Towing Guide
Based on page 17, the tow package would have included:
1. Upgrade from 4-flat to 7-pin wiring (complete)
2. Class III hitch receiver (complete)
3. "Combo Cooler" - Not sure the specifics, but you should definitely install an auxiliary air-to-oil trans cooler inline with the standard bulb cooler that is in your radiator. I don't agree with oversizing this cooler unless you live in hot climate. In Maryland, when not towing, an oversized cooler would have your system taking too long to warm up (expecially in this crazy cold spell we have these days!).
4. Engine Oil Cooler - I agree to hold off on this. If you find you have a problem, get one installed (?).
5. Tire Mobility Kit - This may be a full sized spare (?), who knows. Just be sure your Explorer has a means of changing to an actual spare, not just a can of fix-a-flat.
NOTE: I see nothing about the factory tow package giving different axle ratios. Therefore, if you take care of at least the first 3 items (IMO), you can take advantage of the full tow rating, which according to page 24 is increased from 2000 to 5000.
NOTE ALSO: Page 24 says that you also need to use a WDH to get that 5000 lbs. IMO, if you can keep things under 3500 lbs loaded trailer, you can skip the WDH, but be sure you have those trailer brake working. But if over 3500 lbs, you should consider a light duty WDH kit. When I was towing a 3000 lb popup with a Chrysler minivan, I added a Tekonsha Prodigy brake controller, and a Reese 400 Single Bar WDH kit. It did a great job of leveling the rig, but most importantly, transferring weight back onto the front wheels for traction and stability.