I see no stupid questions here hommie
the 4.0L doesnt like 4200 RPM< it falls flat on its face...opening the intake and exhaust will make it more rev happy.
But first things first, if its high miles first you should be getting it into a good state of tune.
Intake and exhaust = you are only as good as your smallest bottleneck
The OHV 4.0L is picky picky too if you open th eexhaust too much you will lose low end and high end, it wants back pressure.
best exhaust setup I found for my 93 OHV was 2.25" single pipe into a 2.25" single cat, then 2.25 pipe into a 2.5" single in/out muffler with 2.5" pipe out the back
Muffler brand choice is preference really as long as we are tlaking decent designed and flowing mufflers. You can maintain some backpressure by keeping the 2.25" pipe to the muffler and cat