I'm having similar problems. I've bought the T-style connector for the 96 explorer and I've plugged it up and I still have no power, no running, brake, or turn lights. I immediately thought I was having ground/ fuse issues. I looked through the truck and come to find out my truck was missing the 20 amp towing running light fuse and the two turning signal relays. I bought the relays and fuse and neither of the inserts have electrodes in them to accept the fuse or relays. So now I'm kind of lost as to what to do next. Do I need to purchase the 84 dollar kit mentioned above or is there a way I can work with what I have. I'm pretty handy but I am by no means an electrician or a mechanic. Thanks for any help you can offer.