Wanted to chime in with my experience. I have Fox 2.0's on mine and I have really liked them. I have no complaints other than the finish didn't stay pretty as long as I would have liked but that with winter driving in Northern Utah on salty roads. Fox did say that's quicker than they normally see and told me how to correct it next time they are off. They have always answered my calls well, I have only called them twice but both times was good.
I have re-valved my Fox shocks and was easy. When a fair bit stiffer on the compression. As sirhk100 said and for me the hardest part by far is getting them on and off the truck. Very hard to unload the suspension with what I have in my garage. But the re-valve was cake. I bought my nitrogen tank and gauges etc since I wanted to do it myself and so it would be easy to do again. I have also rebuilt several 4wheeler shocks with the tank and fox oil as well to freshen up.
And my slider does rub on the shock body as well. (That was one of my questions to Fox they said its normal but to clock the springs to minimize the pressure the slider has against the shock body) When the temp is right they sound creaky as they slide on the shock body but its not loud. Tell myself its the sound of performance :biggthump
And to comment on an earlier post from sirhk100 I run my dual rate stop all the way down so it goes to a single rate within 1 1/2" I believe. This gives me a soft rate at standard height when blasting down dirt roads. But I really needed the stiffer rate when flexing. Especially when I am coming down trails and its really flexed out. I cut my tires good the first run out because it would just blast through the softer rate with my weight even when going very slow couldn't keep the weight up. Lowered that collar and it really helped it feel more balanced. Before the rig would follow the rear axle with its body roll and with that stiffer rate it lets front and rear both work and the rig stays much more even which also makes it more predictable as well.
As for the go fast stuff I hear you. Mine is very similar to what you are describing. If I am in the sand the whoops are very hard to take it goes through the front end really easily. I had planned to run bumps here when I can but sirhk100 has me wanting to play with valving more. Still want to run bumps though

However I have come up on a few whoops really hard on accident and it did hit hard but the faster I go the better it does seam take them but you have to go a fair bit quicker than I usually like to. Also I have crappy monotube off the self bilsteins in the rear.
Anyways that's a few small things I have found in my little 2 year experience with my rig over 6,000miles. And for reference mine are 14" 2.0's with roughly 8" of droop and 6" of compression and a 200lb upper and a 300lb lower with collar about 1 1/2" from the slider and I'm a V8 2nd gen.