Originally posted by tbomb
because most of the moderators on this site are intense right wingers that dont appreciate others' opinions that arent congruent with their own.
Well gee, I guess it's time for another one of us "intense right wingers" to respond.
To begin with, I'm a big believer in the First Amendment (freedom of religion, expression, speech for those needing a refresher
). To that end, I personally have no problem with a subject like this being discussed, as long as it stays on topic and cordial. I think you'll find most of the other moderators work the same way.
Regardless, I'd like to add a bit to the discussion at hand. There's no question there are some bad cops out there, but I truly believe that the majority of them are good, decent
people with a very difficult job. Notice, I wrote the word people - not machines. People with emotions. People who might just have a life outside their incredibly demanding job. A life that may have some of the very same stresses and concerns that yours has! Thus, they're going to make mistakes. Some of them may not be as good at communicating as others are. Some may actually act like jerks sometimes! Just as some doctors have better "bedside manner" than others.
I also believe that the scope of a cops job is one that few civilians truly understand. How many other jobs do you know of that ask you to potentially give your life during every shift in order to save a complete stranger? You can't even imagine the experiences most of these people undergo during their careers. From people dying in their arms at accident scenes to arriving at a domestic call where some guy just beat the s**t out of his wife and kids. Writing traffic citations is but one small part of the average cops daily routine.
If you truly have an open mind, I'd encourage those who say they "hate cops" to look into going on a ride-along with your local police/sheriff's department. Most of them are happy to oblige and - having done this recently myself for a video project I'm working on - believe me, it can't help but open your eyes! See what life is like in their shoes before you judge so many of them at once.
Finally, as to the particulars of the matter that started this thread, it's tough to say whether that cop had a legitimate concern or not. But he didn't give you a fine either, did he? Also, I know it's tough sometimes being young (teenager/early 20s), I was there myself not all that long ago. It's also true that many cops pay special attention to those younger drivers out there. But be honest - why shouldn't they? The majority of accidents are caused by/involve young drivers (under 25). That's also the reason most car rental companies either won't rent to, or charge huge fees to drivers under that age.
Does that mean all young drivers are irresponsible and dangerous? When you answer that question, consider that the generalization that could be made about young drivers is very similar to the generalization made about cops at the beginning of this thread...