@98FordLove Not trying to attack you or anything, but I read the whole thread (minus bothering to look at the pictures) and I am morally obligated to say three things...
Firstly, the leaks. That truck has serious problems, and there is only one right way to address each of those problems. If you're adding a quart every week, you've already submitted yourself to an endless waste of money. If I add a quart in a YEAR, that sucker's going to the garage until it doesn't leak any more.
Secondly, given the condition you've told us your truck is in, leaking a quart of oil per week (can you say, "sheesh"?), and you expect the frame to rust through to where the truck is no longer safe to drive within two years, your nosy neighbor is probably seriously concerned for your safety.
Thirdly, the Honda's suspension. You find it a more worthwhile expense to pay somewhere in the scope of $200/month to keep a dying truck on the road, against the advisement of your boss, and you see this as a reasonable alternative to spending the, say, $600-ish it would cost to get a dealership to do the suspension on your Honda? Three months of not driving the Explorer would cover that cost. Source your own suspension parts on RockAuto.com. My dealership quoted me around $750 for the tie rod ends and upper ball joints on my Durango, went to RockAuto and got 'em for less than $100, shipped.
Or may be just... get another second-gen Explorer? They're a dime a dozen here in the States, just come south of the border for a week and you'll see 'em for sale on street corners in the three-digit range. Every other body shop has one, or find some guy at Wal Mart and offer him a few hundred bucks, he'll probably let you have his.