Ok thanks guys. I'll just run it how it is and hope for the best. At this point it's not going to change. My hands and back are so sore from 2 days working on this, I hope it doesn't take much more to finish up today.
The passenger side took so long because of, of course, the inside collector bolt, and because the header was getting stuck between the motor mount bolts, the A/C box, the front alignment cam for the A arm, and the alternator/accessory mount on the front of the engine. I trimmed the motor mount bolts, unbolted the bottom one and lifted the engine, unbolted the inner side of the A/C box, loosened the alternator, and turned the alignment cam, and with a deadblow to the front of the header it finally slid into place. The EGR tube was easy to bend into shape, but it took about 40 minutes of tedious crescent wrench work to get it bolted back up. The coating on the headers is not so pretty in some places anymore, but oh well. These things better be damn worth it!
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